Shift with Roxy

Roxy Redrum

“Not thriving – Just vibing”

Female

132 Years Old

United States

About Me:

Creator of Shift Happens:Bloodbath and Beyond, and Redrum Radio. Dj of emotional chaos. Turning trauma into baselines, and healing into reverb. Welcome to the frequency of freedom, babe.

Mood: like I just remembered I’m the main character.

Currently Listening: https://youtu.be/h5aOsC4qd7k?si=dnepwl92wWC12YWa

  • Redrum Radio: The Frequency of Freedom

    Seven years ago, I buried a dream. It didn’t die — it just went underground. When I got divorced, I said I wanted to be a DJ or a podcaster. He said all the reasons I couldn’t. And then he became both. For years, that burned a quiet hole in me. I didn’t even realize…

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  • The Center of Transition

    I’m in mid transition with the podcast and it’s weird. I’m trusting the process as much as I can. 7 years ago, my heart was set on becoming an EDM DJ. Beats make me move. They give me some of the deepest goosebumps I’ve ever had. I wanted to give that to the world. This…

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  • The Shiftlist: Glow-Up or Get Out

    This one’s for my ex. And my ex’s ex. And that situationship that ghosted me but still watches my stories like it’s a Netflix series he never paid for. Welcome to The Shift List. Roxy here.  Where today’s episode is called: “Glow-Up or Get Out.” Subtitled: Get Out. Seriously. I’m not paying for both our…

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  • The Breakup Bonfire

    Welcome, love. You’ve been carrying too much. His voice. Her silence. The version of you that thought maybe it would change. Tonight, we set it all on fire. Not literally—no bail money in the budget. But here, in this midnight space, you get to burn it down… safely. So. Find your stillness. Sink into whatever…

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  • Hostage of the House

    Welcome back to Shift Happens: Bloodbath & Beyond. Let’s talk about living at home when ‘home’ feels less like shelter and more like solitary confinement. I call it hostage of the house. Because yes, technically, I have keys. I can leave. I can enter. But there’s always someone standing at the metaphorical door, making sure…

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  • The Sauna of Survival

    Welcome back to Shift Happens: Bloodbath & Beyond. It’s me, Roxy—reporting live from what used to be my bedroom and is now basically a slow cooker set to trauma stew. The AC broke on July 7th. And like any good hostage, I thought, ‘I’ll wait it out. Someone will rescue me. Someone will fix it.’…

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  • 🩸I Didn’t Ghost You, I Just Stopped Bleeding for Bare Minimum🩸

    There’s this narrative that’s been whispered into women’s ears for centuries: “If you’re quiet, you’re cruel.” That silence means punishment. That walking away means abandonment. That choosing not to respond makes you the ghost. But here’s the truth, in blood and bone: I didn’t ghost you. I stopped giving mouth-to-mouth to a connection that only…

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  • Not a Crime Scene: Why My Podcast Isn’t About The Worst Thing That’s Ever Happened To Me

    by Roxy Redrum I was watching the news the other day, and they were covering a trial—another senseless murder, another grieving family standing in a courtroom reading letters to the man who took their daughter’s life. The letters were full of hate. Understandably. They wanted him to feel the weight of what he did. And…

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  • I Took Her Advice… She Didn’t

    I used to take on my mother’s irritation like it was my job. Every time she sighed at something my dad did—or didn’t do—I felt it in my bones. I’d try to fix it. Make her laugh. Be extra helpful. Play peacemaker between two adults who made choices I had no say in. For a…

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  • Rebuilding My Kingdom

    About a month and a half ago, I had someone try to turn my world upside down. What they didn’t expect, is I flipped the script. Yeah, they rocked my world in the worst way for about a month but after that, it’s all about what’s next. I’m next. I hit this level of burn…

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